| Dating for Freaks...AKA how to find your new soul make who also loves anal play:) |
[Nov. 3rd, 2009|07:23 pm] |
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So I broke up with my long term girlfriend recently. We had been together for seven years (I'm 24) and I lost my virginity to her. During our relationship we both greatly expanded our sexual adventures together and became quite the freaks in bed. Also both of our sex drives was very high (usually daily). Well the relationship is over (for reasons not involving sex) and now I find myself in quite the paradox. I'm both highly inexperienced and experienced and I'm have a very hard time dating and finding a new partner. I recently ended dating one girl when she said that 'I was just interested in sex' when she didn't share my drive for daily sex and she seemed quite put off as I started to bring up more adventitious ideas to try. I would say I'm quite average a person and never really ran in the circles where kinky things are discussed. So any advice on being able to find a partner for more than sex, but also someone who will share my bedroom desires (bdsm, pegging, role playing) and not just boring fucking?
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| Threesomes - as an outsider |
[Nov. 3rd, 2009|05:36 pm] |
I'm single, female, and at University. I've been approached by a couple I know, and they want a threesome.
Oooo.
I actually like the sound of that.
The boy I know well - he lives in my hall of residence, is a good friend, yadda yadda... his girlfriend is BEAUTIFUL, I've met about twice, and we get on really well.
The boy has approached me on two occassions (while I've been drunk) and has asked me if I was up for it... and I've enthusiastically said yes twice... ummm... but, now I'm beginning to wonder how to orchestrate this, and about repercussions. Because I live in a different part of the building I only see the boy every now and again so if it all goes tits up it won't be TOO awkward... but, I do find him attractive!
So, any tips?
I've never done anything with a girl before, and I've only slept with two people. However I get off on girls in porn, etc, so I'm turned on by the idea. It's just the actual -doing- i'm worried about. And, I hate the thought of them 'using' me.... but they're nice people, and they seem to like me. |
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[Nov. 2nd, 2009|07:24 pm] |
i feel really silly asking this question but here goes. when my fwb and i have sex, he's usually the one to initiate it. i have no problem saying yes if he asks, but there seems to be something stopping me from initiating it. then i realized that i have no clue how to. even though we're comfortable with each other, i feel somewhat like a skank if i try and convince him into having sex.
so, aside from my rambling, (if you're a female) how do you initiate sex especially if they aren't a s/o? |
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| Question Regarding "Vibrating Panties" |
[Nov. 2nd, 2009|12:36 am] |
I checked in the memories, and while I did find some posts regarding certain sextoys and different types and all that, none of them seemed to be about the sort of thing I was looking for; I apologize if I did manage to miss something!
Originally, I was going to post asking questions about recommendations for "outside" vibrators-- Y'know, stuff more designed for stimulation outside the vagina, as opposed to outside, as I'm still not quite comfortable with the idea of penetration yet (I'm still a tad uncomfortable with my "down there", but I'm working on it!). Going through the memories, while I didn't find any posts specifically asking for suggestions on things like this, I did come across a link to Blowfish.com which has a section for "outie" toys.
One item in particular caught my attention-- The Vibrating Panties. It looks like the perfect thing for me; it fits right into the crotch-pocket of my own panties, has a wireless remote...
I'm definitely thinking of getting it, although I would like some input on it first-- Has anybody else ever tried this, and is it worth it? This will be my first sex-toy if I do get it, any helpful opinions would be greatly appreciated! <3
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| Advice/Questions for all the girls: |
[Oct. 28th, 2009|02:08 am] |
So i just met a guy who i really like, and he has invited me to spend the night a few times, although the idea of cuddiling up in bed with him appeals to me, im afraid that it might lead to other things, and i know i always have the option to just cuddle, however, i think i might like having sex with him right now. The only problem is: I always try to wait to have sex with men because i fear if i sleep with them once they will get bored with me and it will be over.
I guess my question for everyone is: Does anyone else worry like this? Like, so you sleep with the guy and you've only known him a week or so, does that doom any possibility of a serious relationship with the guy? I guess i just feel like all the mystery is gone at that point, you've already slept with the guy, hes seen you naked, what does he have to look forward to? |
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[Oct. 26th, 2009|12:52 am] |
Hi there. Didn't find anything in the memories so I figured I'd ask here. I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, and she's my first girlfriend (I am a girl as well). She currently does not live anywhere near me and I'll be moving over to her part of the country when I get the chance.
I've never been with a girl before and I don't really know how two girls would go about having sex. Obviously I know how to pleasure myself, but I was wondering if anyone had tips as far as that goes. Also she's a virgin (she's never been kissed at all, never been in a relationship), I'm not, and therefore I don't really know how I'd approach this. We've talked a bit about sex (nothing graphic though) and I know she'd probably want it, but all of my previous boyfriends haven't been virgins so I've never really been the one with the sex know-how.
Thanks in advance! |
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